To Help You Get Along and Express Yourself · by Catherine Newman
What Can I Say? A Kid's Guide to Super Useful Social Skills
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After one week of reading this together, my son handles social situations so differently. We feel 100% more prepared for whatever comes his way.
Ask Yourself Does your child know how to…
Most of us were raised by parents who never taught emotional regulation or social skills. This book changes that.
Inside the Book Every social skill, covered.
Speech-bubble illustrations walk kids through exactly what to say in real situations they'll actually face.
Shutting Down Gossip
Scripts for redirecting drama and stepping away from toxic friendship dynamics gracefully.
Real Apologies
What a sincere apology looks like — naming the hurt, owning the impact, no excuses.
Greetings & Introductions
Meet someone new, introduce yourself, and make others feel included — even in mixed friend groups.
Hard Conversations
Navigating conflict, big emotions, friendship endings, and tough situations at any age.
Real Skills for Real Life
See the real impact this book has on young readers.
Real Skills for Real Life
See the real impact this book has on young readers.
Making New Friends
of kids reported feeling more confident introducing themselves and making new friends
Easy to Use Daily
found the scripts easy to use in real social situations right away
Handling Conflict
of parents said their child handled conflict and difficult situations better after reading
*Statistics based on parent and reader surveys regarding the book's effectiveness in building social and emotional skills.
Trustpilot Reviews
My Son's Confidence Has Skyrocketed
I bought this book for my 10-year-old who was struggling with social anxiety at school. Within weeks, I noticed him initiating conversations and handling awkward situations with so much more ease. The real-life scenarios really clicked with him. Now he actually looks forward to group projects and lunch with friends. This book gave him the tools he needed to express himself authentically. Best parenting resource I've purchased
Worth Every Penny
My daughter now knows how to walk away from drama without hurting anyone. That alone was worth every penny.
Finally, a Social Skills Book That Actually Works
As a teacher, I've seen countless social skills resources, but this one stands out. I recommended it to parents of my 4th graders, and the feedback has been incredible. The illustrations are engaging, the scenarios are spot-on, and kids actually want to read it. One shy student told me it helped her know what to say when meeting new friends. I now keep copies in my classroom library!
Wish I Had This as a Kid
Bought this thinking it might help my 11-year-old son, but honestly, I learned a lot too! The advice is practical, modern, and actually useful—not the generic 'just be yourself' stuff. My son now handles peer pressure better, knows how to apologize sincerely, and even asks adults for help when he needs it. The section on being a good ally really opened his eyes. Fantastic resource!
He Actually Asks to Read It
The illustrations make it so easy for my son. He actually asks to read it, and we roleplay the scenarios every night.
Helped My Daughter Navigate Middle School Drama
Middle school can be brutal, and my 12-year-old was constantly stressed about friend drama and gossip. This book taught her how to shut down negativity, be a good ally, and communicate her boundaries. She's now more confident standing up for herself and others. The chapter on handling gossip alone was worth the price. Wish I had this guide when I was growing up!
The Toolkit I Never Got Growing Up
Even I needed this book. It's the emotional toolkit I never got growing up. My kids will be so much better prepared.
A Game Changer for Our Family
We read this together every night before bed. The conversations it sparks are incredible, my kids are more aware of how they treat others now.
Every Parent Needs This Book
I purchased this for my 9-year-old twins, and it's been a game-changer for our whole family. They used to come home upset about playground conflicts or not knowing how to respond to rude comments. Now they have practical tools to handle these situations. We read it together at bedtime, and it sparked amazing conversations. Highly recommend for any parent wanting to raise socially confident, empathetic kids!
Finally, Real Scripts for Real Situations
Other books just tell kids what to do. This one actually shows them what to say. My son used one of the scripts at school the very next day.
My Kid Stopped the Gossip at School
Within a week of reading the gossip chapter, my daughter confidently shut down a rumour at school. I was so proud. This book actually works.
It Opens the Best Conversations
Every page we read together leads to the most amazing conversations with my kids. It's not just a book, it's a whole parenting tool. Absolutely love it.
Shipping took forever but the book itself is solid.
Ordered this two weeks ago and USPS sat on it for 9 days before it even moved. Was pretty frustrated and almost asked for a refund. But once it finally arrived I have to say, the content is excellent. The apology and gossip chapters especially are something I've never seen anywhere else. Book itself is great, totally worth the wait!
Works for All Ages
I have a 7-year-old and a 13-year-old and both of them get something different out of every chapter. Incredible that one book can work so well for such different ages.
The ultimate manual for making friends and solving conflicts with a smile.
50+ Scripts
Specific language provided for almost every social scenario imaginable.
Comic Visuals
Graphic-novel style art makes social lessons easy and engaging to follow.

FSC Certified
Environmentally friendly materials ensure a better future for our planet.
Conflict Pro
Learn to argue respectfully and stop bullying in its tracks effectively.
Give your child the skills school won't teach them.
Emotional intelligence, social confidence, real-world communication — all in one fun illustrated book. It sold out before. Don't miss it again.
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Give your child the skills school won't teach them.
Emotional intelligence, social confidence, real-world communication — all in one fun illustrated book. It sold out before. Don't miss it again.
BUY NOW
Frequently Asked Questions
This book is perfect for kids aged 6–14. The illustrated scenarios are easy for younger kids to follow, while the social skills covered stay relevant all the way through the teen years.
Read a few pages together each day and talk through the scenarios. The book is designed for roleplay — practice the situations at home so your child feels confident when they face them in real life.
Both! Many parents who read it admit they needed these skills growing up too. It covers emotional regulation and tough conversations that most of us were never taught — making it genuinely useful for the whole family.
It covers a wide range of real-life social situations — from introducing yourself, shutting down gossip, and giving genuine compliments, to apologizing properly, handling conflict, and navigating friendships that no longer serve you.
Most books just tell kids what to do — this one actually shows them. The illustrated speech bubbles give kids real words and phrases they can use straight away, making it practical rather than just theoretical.
Absolutely! The scenarios and roleplay format make it perfect for classrooms, homeschool groups, or any setting where kids learn together. Teachers and counselors love it just as much as parents.
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Parents discovered it through social media and word spread quickly. The illustrated scripts, practical conversations, and real-life topics that schools simply don't teach made it a must-have for families everywhere.
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Read a few pages together each day and talk through the scenarios. The book is designed for roleplay — practice the situations at home so your child feels confident when they face them in real life.
It covers a wide range of real-life social situations — from introducing yourself, shutting down gossip, and giving genuine compliments, to apologizing properly, handling conflict, and navigating friendships that no longer serve you.
Absolutely! The scenarios and roleplay format make it perfect for classrooms, homeschool groups, or any setting where kids learn together. Teachers and counselors love it just as much as parents.
Full 30-day money-back guarantee. No questions asked. Just contact us and we'll take care of it immediately.
We accept major credit cards, PayPal, and Apple Pay for your convenience and security.
If you’re not satisfied with your purchase, you may request a return within 30 days of receiving your order. Items must be unused and in their original packaging.
You can reach our support team via email through our contact page, and we will respond as soon as possible.